Wed 6 May 2009
R of REBEL: Remember to Remind the Brain
Posted by cameron under Strategies
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This is a review of each component of REBEL, a process I use to help clients with getting things done.
G-C’s understand the value of “Remembering to Remind the Brain”. Keeping the pump primed is key to Effective Brain Management. There are two methods to consider. A formal event such as a weekly or daily review and an informal event such as pausing and asking a relevant ‘fire chief’ question.
Formal
GC’s can get stuck in over-review (in a way it keeps them out of action phase). A brief review of daily intentions can really clarify the tracks you are choosing for the day. A lengthier weekly review similar to the GTD approach can go a long way in reminding us of our intentions and goals.
Informal
Informal reminder events don’t get the attention their formal cousins do but these can have a huge impact on the outcome of any given day. An informal event shows up most effectively as a pause in the day- a check in on where you are and where you are heading. Getting your attention is best done in the form of a question. Central to the success of a question is what, how and when it is asked.
Consider the following:
What to ask.
“What is most important right now?….What’s a priority?….”
This helps keep the train on the intended track and limits tangents thru the day.
“Where is my brain?….What is getting in my way?….”
Recognizing distraction in the moment is a huge skill.
How to ask.
“Hey Dipshit! Get to work!” will get your attention but sets a tone of disdain and frustration.
You don’t need more stress. You need more clarity. Asking in a more neutral way will take the focus off you and place the focus where it needs to be — the problem and eventual solution.
When to ask.
“Where am I heading?….Do I want to go this way?….”
The best time to ask is soon after the train has left the track (not two hours later)
So make some space for R of REBEL and see what happens
CBG
May 19th, 2009 at 7:01 am
Great post, I always look forward to your updates, helps remind me what I am doing. My goal is to be a REBEL with a cause!
May 20th, 2009 at 5:30 am
Thanks Bob!
You get what R all about.
REBEL with a cause. It suits you well.
CBG